Questions to ask before marriage

Before committing, it is important to know whether you share the same vision of life. These questions help you discuss what matters, calmly and respectfully. Ask them gradually, not all at once.

Faith and values

What place does religion have in your daily life?
How do you imagine practising together as a family?
What values would you like to pass on to your children?

Family and children

Would you like to have children, and how many?
What role will each of our families play in our life?
Would we live near your family, mine, or elsewhere?

Daily life and work

How do you see the sharing of tasks at home?
What are your professional plans for the coming years?
How do you manage money and savings?

Character and communication

How do you react when you disagree with someone?
What do you need to feel respected and loved?
What are you most proud of, and what would you like to improve?

Listen to the answers as much as to the way they are given. If you agree on the essentials, involve your families. Read our guide to halal online dating.